Have faith in yourself

How can people succed in life if they don't have faith in themself, in their inner forces? It must be really hard. It's like an intimate relationship. It can't work if there are doubts regarding eachother. It won't last until those doubts are eliminated.

It worries me the huge number of people who suffer from the "inferiority complex" syndrome. It sounds like a medical term and to some extent it is. It's like a disease. It's like a bad flu which keeps you in bed and inhibits you from going to work. Instead, this syndrome keeps you from living an extraordinary life and inhits you from fulfilling your dreams.

Pause for a moment and think of those people beating cancer, fighting AIDS. They are real examples of strenght. Many of them didn't even realise how strong they were until faced with the disease. And YOU are strong. It's just you don't know yet how strong you are.

As any other disease, in order to cure it, we must find its roots. Psyhologists advise us to make a serious inner analysis in order to find out where this feeling comes from. It may be a certain event in your childhood, it may be the consequences of your actions, or any other emotional distress. Maybe another people made you feel insecure, voluntary or not. Maybe life have hit you hard.

Whatever the difficulties may be, you can get over them. Why? Because we were born winners. It's our choice if we chose not to be. Our life depends entirely on us. Stop blaming others or the destiny cause you have the power to shape your life.

Have faith in possitive thinking. Don't understimate the power of possitive thinking. Beleive that you can fight anything and begin action.

I once saw a movie. It's called "The Secret". I found it difficult to watch it untill the end because they repet over and over again the same stuff. But, it has a very usefull basic idea. It stipulates that the secret of life is the "Law of attraction" meaning that we attract all those things that happen to us. It's somehow connected to possitive thinking. "Thoughts become things". That's what I recommend it to you. (You can watch a part of it here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8&feature=related )

How many of you compare yourself with others and after feel disapointed? It's good to have a role model, somebody you look up to. But many of us confuse that with imitating. You can't succed in imitating because we are unique persons and that uniqueness makes up special.

There will always be a better person than us in some field. You will never sing like Mariah Carey, nor look like Angelina Jolie, nor have Bill Gates' money. Should we feel inferior? No way. You may not look like Angelina, but you may be a great mum, a great wife. You may not have the financial power of Bill Gates, but you may have an outstanding career right before you, you may have skills and compenteces and knowledge. You may not be as popular as Mariah, but you may be loved and appreciated by your collegues, friends and relatives. Think about that.

Those special features that we may call inferiority in just one word, are features that make us unique. Nobody's perfect. We can only improve constantly!